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22 September 2013 @ 21:38
Does anyone else have a boyfriend/girlfriend like this?  
I reblogged something from Supernatural earlier on Tumblr and Alex just saw it and got moody with me. Supernatural is a big part of my life and it has been since I was 11 and began watching it.

When I met Alex, I was 17. Since then I've had to keep Supernatural as a kind of secret because if I mention it or reblog it, god forbid watch it, Alex gets upset/moody with me.

It's pathetic. In a BIG way.

He knows that I love him. He knows that I've loved him for 3 years, he's an actual person and I love him,

But he thinks that I love the show more than him. Which, again, is pathetic. I love the show, of course, it was my escape when I was younger and I've grown up watching it and loving it. Obviously, the cast are some of my favourite people too. But he doesn't see that me loving the show is WAYYY different to me loving him.

It's really getting on my nerves. Like I can't like stuff if he doesn't. I can't have an opinion on things unless his opinion is the same. I can't believe in things if he doesn't. I can't speak my mind because it offends him and says that I'm moaning all the time.

It's just really getting me down, to be honest. I love him, but if he carries on, he'll be on his own and I know for a fact he will not like that. But he promised me that he wouldn't make a big deal about SPN anymore. I've been gently reblogging things on Tumblr, pointing out dvds with the cast in....we even watched Band of Brothers with Richard Speight in. But I don't think he's going to let it go and I'm not sure how long our relationship will carry on if he carries on being a dick over something that's stupid.....
Tammy!♥: Legacytammy85 on 2nd October 2013 02:27 (UTC)
He really needs to chill. You're entitled to like whatever show you want -and talk about it- and have your own interests/opinions. How would he feel if someone did that to him? I'm sorry you have to keep dealing with that, and I don't think you should ever have to keep your love for a television show a secret.
sarcastica_xyjnh_xtreme_girl on 7th October 2013 00:48 (UTC)
Oh, I know. It's ridiculous.
Like there's nothing more important going on around us? x
Tammy!♥tammy85 on 11th October 2013 22:37 (UTC)
Right? I don't get how someone can be so...grrrr....to a TV show, and you should not have to compromise your interests, opinions, etc. for anyone.
sarcastica_xyjnh_xtreme_girl on 11th October 2013 23:58 (UTC)
Gosh I know, it's pathetic. But who knows, as times goes by he might grow up? x
Tammy!♥tammy85 on 14th October 2013 22:13 (UTC)
I hope so!